I feel like maybe your housemate should try to put as much thought and understanding into your anxiety and the reasons behind the actions (or lack of) as you do with her borderline and ocd
i mean, sure, that would be nice.
but also, i’m not even seeing a therapist right now. i told her about my anxiety, but we haven’t talked about it in depth. whereas i’ve heard a lot about her stuff; i have a lot of context and she doesn’t. she hasn’t been able to work for more than a couple months at a time since 2012, and she is currently trying very hard to get mental health care through medicaid (which is awful / a joke), and she just took a job in her field for three months even though she doesn’t think she can really handle working right now because of money.
Like, these past few days have been really really tough for her. That doesn’t excuse her from blowing up at me, but I can definitely see why it happened. She is on the crazy-levels-of-stress train, and she wanted and expected some consideration from us/me. (I mean, she wasn’t asking for favors. Weekly cleaning is in our contract.)
"Al Qaeda still wants to kill us but we’ve been pretty successful at keeping them from doing that. For some reason we needed a new boogeyman. I wonder why?
We’ve spent trillions on Homeland Security, outfitted every Barney Fife in the nation with robo-cop gear and allowed the government to spy on Americans at will. I don’t know about you but I kind of expect that all of that should actually be worth something. If we’re going to run around tearing our hair out every time somebody puts out a scary video maybe it’s time to re-evaluate that strategy.
This is not to say that there isn’t a threat for the people in the Middle East and there is a legitimate argument to be made that it requires intervention from outside the region lest the whole place blows up even further. (I’m not sure we won’t make things worse —- we usually do — but I understand the arguments for it.) What is galling is the fact that they continue to treat us like children and tell us spooky bedtime stories so they can scare us into supporting their commercial/geopolitical goals. Maybe those goals are worth pursuing but we’ll never know because we’re chasing evil Ninjas who are allegedly coming over the border to unleash mushroom clouds on American cities.
Al Qaeda has a strategy to create dramatic terrorist attacks on the West. We’ve known this for a long, long time. That has not changed. ISIS is a different problem. The fact that the war hawks pimped this line about ISIS being worse than Al Qaeda should make everyone skeptical of what they are hearing about this whole thing —- and skeptical of the motivations behind it. How many times do we have to be lied to?"
So they aren’t more dangerous to us than al Qaeda after all? Why would they have said that?
When I suggested that the GOP was trying to make us really super afraid of ISIS because there’s an election coming up, and they do this before every election going back a decade, the stupidsphere lost its collective shit at me, and said that I believed — I am not making this up — that ISIS is “a Republican plot to win elections.” Of course, that’s not what I said, but boy when those idiots get stuck on a narrative, they *really* go all-in with it.
ISIS is bad news, and especially bad news to its region, but we don’t need to be wetting our pants about them here in America, because, in spite of what the GOP and the bedwetters in the stupidsphere want us to believe, the entire stupid homeland security apparatus has been pretty good at keeping the bad guys out of America (unless you count the handful of morons who were entrapped by FBI, posing as terrorists, who never would have gotten a single idea off the ground otherwise.)
The stupidsphere desperately wants to start dropping bombs all over the place, because they don’t know how to do anything else, and they really need to feel macho, facts be damned.